A study recently published in the American Journal of Psychological Science showed that psychologists from the University of St. Andrews in the United Kingdom found that learning to forgive can make people forget negative events. The researchers asked 40...

Ms. Liu, a Beijing reader, asked: I was a top student in high school and was admitted to a top university in the college entrance examination. But after I entered college, I came last in the first exam. I felt very embarrassed and started studying hard, b...

Bi Shumin: Famous writer, psychiatrist, vice chairman of Beijing Writers Association, national first-class writer, whose representative works include "Kunlun Shang", "Red Prescription" and so on. It is impossible not to be angry. People are not angry...

National Level 2 Psychological Counselor Ju Jinmin Before Bell invented the telephone, Rice had developed a new device that could transmit sounds 1,000 meters away. The only drawback was that it could only transmit sounds in one direction and could not co...

Lack of time, worry about losing money, anxious to get married... "Scarcity mentality" makes you confused Ma Jianwen, Chairman of Guangdong Aijia Psychological Research Institute Many people will have this experience or knowledge: walking on the street...

The British "Daily Mail" recently reported that scholars from the Free University of Bolzano in Italy found that for industries that require high IQs, such as software development, if practitioners are in a happy mood, they can solve problems better and...

Li Jun, Associate Professor, Institute of Cognition and Neuroscience, Beijing Normal University Everyone has the hope of expressing themselves, and the color of cars entering thousands of households can reflect the personality of the car owner to a certai...

Interviewing a businessman who opens a store, he has a clean face, clean eyes, clean clothes, wearing a cotton khaki jacket, a little shy. His business has been very good, with many repeat customers. Among his experiences, I am most interested in one of t...

The Chinese have never been a group that likes to laugh, and the highest state they have always admired is "stillness". "The Chronicles of the Three Kingdoms and the Chronicles of Shu" also teaches people to "not show emotions and anger" in order to...

Many people have this feeling: Our parents teased us about funny things when we were young, but we can’t remember them at all, so we are full of doubts: Did I do such stupid things back then? Research shows that most people’s memories begin when they are...

With the release of the film "The Hypnotist", everyone's curiosity about hypnosis has been aroused. What does hypnosis really look like? Is it like in the movie that you can hypnotize others by just counting "3, 2, 1" and snapping your fingers? In th...

If you ask people in the workplace “when is the most painful time”, the answer will probably be “Monday morning”. A "Survey Report on the Current Situation of Work Burnout among Chinese Workers" shows that 74.6% of people have mild burnout and 43.2% hav...

In today's society, people's material life is getting richer and richer, but it is difficult to say that they are becoming more and more happy spiritually. Although shopping, Internet access, travel and various conveniences in life will bring people som...

Reporter: Jiang Dahong’s mood is always considered unpredictable. However, Tan Shuping, executive director of the Psychiatric Research Center of Beijing Huilongguan Hospital, told the "Life Times" reporter that research has found that there is actually...

Whether it is the film era or the current WeChat era, there are many people who are keen on taking selfies. A recent survey by the China Youth Daily Social Survey Center found that 66.5% of the respondents had the habit of taking selfies. An earlier surve...

It is often said that money cannot buy love, happiness and dignity, but scientists have found that touching money may help relieve physical and psychological pain. According to a recent report from the "American Mind Hacker" website, touching one or two...

The potential of the brain is theoretically unlimited, but in fact, we are always limiting ourselves and wasting energy on a self-depleting mentality. Many people never reach 1% of their true potential throughout their lives. If you want to maximize your...

Master Hsing Yun: A native of Jiangdu, Jiangsu Province, he is the 48th generation successor of the Linji Sect of Zen Buddhism. Master Li Zhikai became a monk at the Dajue Temple in Yixing at the age of 12. He went to Taiwan in 1949 and founded Fo Guang S...

In modern society, impetuosity seems to have become a "common problem". Some people are very tired every day, but they don’t know what they are busy with, and they are very confused inside; some people have become senior "angry youths", complaining al...

The British writer Wilde wrote a famous fairy tale "The Giant's Garden": The giant owned a very beautiful garden, but he was so arrogant that he believed that no one was worthy of entering. Gradually, the garden lost its laughter and laughter, the bird...

Social anxiety is an emotional experience arising from interactions. Everyone hopes to be recognized, accepted, respected, envied and praised by others. Moderate anxiety can remind yourself to prepare in advance and show your excellence. But if you are to...

Ms. Huang, a reader from Shanxi, asked: My son is over 30 this year and has not found a partner yet. I am very anxious, but I am afraid that he will be annoyed, so I dare not ask openly. I would ask him in a roundabout way from time to time, such as "The...

Rossi is a famous columnist, executive editor of "Entrepreneurship World" magazine, and guest host on TV and radio. He has written more than 30 best-selling monographs, including "Sexiness is Another Kind of Nobility" and "Thank You When the Flowers...

As early as more than 2,000 years ago, Confucius put forward the famous conclusion that one should stand tall at thirty. But now, people are living longer and longer, and their psychological environment has also undergone tremendous changes. Sociologists...