Let's forget it
You said that you still have not retained this relationship, you said that it is difficult for you to accept this reality, and you said that after separation, you don’t know how to start living again. Does it hurt? It hurts. Because pain is a symbol of wound healing and growth...
You said that you still have not retained this relationship. You said that it is difficult for you to accept this reality. You said that after separation, you don’t know what to do. How to start living again.
Does it hurt? It hurts. Because pain is a symbol of wound healing and an inevitable process of growth. Sometimes you have to admit that love is a particularly fragile existence. Those relationships that you once thought were as solid as steel will break at some point and eventually turn into nothing.
The older you grow, the more you realize that relationships and people are not very resistant to tossing. Then you will understand that when a relationship really cannot last, you must say goodbye even if you are reluctant to leave.
Actually, I think the biggest connection between lovers is love. Without love, there is no room for tolerance and companionship. Since you believe him when he says he loves you, then when he says he doesn’t love you, don’t deny and pester him in every possible way. You have to know that as long as one person doesn't love you anymore, those two people can't last long no matter what. The days ahead are still very long, and no one should delay anyone.
Gahlil Gibran said: "Forgetting is a form of freedom." One day, you will slowly learn to calmly accept the arrival and departure of everyone, and learn to accept every emotion. Consolidation and collapse. Love can really make people frightened. Caution and insecurity are sometimes precursors to loss. So don't put all your energy into love, otherwise you will lose everything when it disappears.
Even if you love someone again, don't forget to leave a trace of reason. Because life is not only poetry and distance, but also the impermanent emotions in the impermanent years. Letting go happily does not mean that your love is not deep enough, but you should be glad that when you love others, you still do not forget to love yourself.
No matter how life tortures you, no matter how unforgettable the relationship was, I hope you can always live a life full of energy and courage to love and hate. I hope that while you have the greatest expectations for love, you also give yourself the greatest respect. Let yourself go. You have to believe that there will be someone in the future who will never leave again.