Several sexologists summarized: The “bed talk” that men most want to hear
Appropriate pillow whispering is a wonderful aphrodisiac, and its effect is no less than sexy underwear or some drugs. Recently, the famous American sexology magazine "Red Book" published the latest article, which published the "love words he most wants to hear in bed" summarized by many sexology experts.
“Put your hands here.” Dr. Vanessa Martin, a sex and couple relationship therapist in San Francisco, said that although couples have been very familiar with each other’s bodies for many years, verbal reminders from time to time will undoubtedly help couples have harmonious sex. . Caressing is an important part of foreplay, and exploring new excitement zones can improve the quality of a couple's sex.
Sexy jokes. Dr. Emily Morse, a sexologist in San Francisco, USA, said that telling dirty jokes and pornographic jokes between couples can help stimulate each other's desire and prolong sex time.
“I want to watch.” Compared with women, men are more susceptible to visual stimulation during sex, which is why men like to have sex with the lights on. If the wife says "I want to see it", that is playing into the man's hands. In fact, having an unobstructed view of each other was much better than fumbling in the dark.
"I dreamed last night..." Dr. Morse said that even if he only said half of what he said, he could still guess it with a clear mind. Sexual fantasies are normal, and couples who can share their sexual fantasies can help create the miracle of life together.
“Let me know when you are ready.” Some couples complain that their sweetness is often disturbed by their children. This sentence tells your lover that sex is important and that you are always willing to accompany it. It is also a good choice for couples to agree on a time to share and enjoy each other without interruption.
"I want to kiss your body." Mark Michael and Patricia Knight, American sex education experts and authors of the book "Passionate Partners", said that it is difficult for a man to refuse his wife's kiss. Even if the wife only says this sentence, it can instantly arouse the man's passion.
"I wanted to do this when I was in the meeting today." Dr. Martin said that sexual daydreaming can help relieve stress and make work more exciting. Sharing your daydreams is a huge compliment and encouragement to him, and can also make you more excited.
"I like the smell of you." Dr. Morse said that this sentence can make the man feel very masculine. Special body odor can help enhance the intimacy between a couple, let him know how to arouse you, and help both parties enter a state of intimacy more easily.
"Yes, great." Telling him directly how you feel can better communicate your sexual experience. For him, "awesome" is the most exciting word of encouragement and praise, which will make the whole process of sex extremely pleasurable.
"I like this position." Being on top will give the woman greater initiative and better satisfy her desire to conquer and possessiveness. It is also a huge sexual stimulation for men. At this time, the man only needs to cooperate and complete the sexual activity without consuming any energy.