How to save your sex life without it
How to save the relationship between husband and wife if there is no sex life and no love between you. If there is no sex life between you and your husband for a long time, there is no sexual stimulation and no desire for sex, then your relationship is unlikely to be any better. Yes, generally speaking, when it reaches this point, the relationship between husband and wife has reached a period of crisis. If you don't adjust and deal with it properly, both parties may cheat. What's more dangerous is that both parties will break up and divorce. This That’s the importance of neutrality in sex life between husband and wife.
So how to adjust it?
Emotional experts have put forward some suggestions for everyone. I hope it will be helpful to everyone.
Set aside date time and deliberately create time for two people. Make time to date your significant other just like you would at work, rather than letting your sex life be sacrificed forever. For example, a certain period of time on the weekend or a certain evening on weekdays is the time for two people to date and have sex. Don't let other things take its place. Yang Qianxiong, a psychiatrist at Xinmei Treatment Center, emphasized that sex life is not just a physical matter, but an art and a game between two people. If it is not managed, of course there will be no good results.
2. Seek changes and often create freshness. Men's sexual behavior is very physical and direct sensory stimulation. They like different feelings, different times and places, and have different changes and patterns. This is very different from women's preference for romantic and stable emotional relationships. Therefore, it is best for both parties to understand and adjust to the other half. For example, occasionally going to a motel or redecorating the bedroom can bring great excitement and freshness to men. For women, men should carefully manage foreplay and let their wives feel their love and care at ordinary times. Thoughtfulness and gentleness are what turn women on.
3. Frequently exercise with your significant other. Scientific research has found that the brain is a sexy arousal zone, and exercise can make the brain smart. Go exercise with your significant other. Gentle walks and swimming are both good options.OK. Chat and develop relationships while exercising. Engaging in sexual activity actually requires physical strength. Having good exercise habits will also make you stronger and more interested in doing it. But women must not care too much about their figure. Research has found that 78% of women are dissatisfied with their bodies and cannot enjoy sex.
4. Hug each other more often. Chen Siming, an obstetrician and gynecologist at Taiwan Adventist Hospital, recommends hugging and touching your partner more often if you have nothing to do. From physical contact without sexual desire, sexual feelings will gradually develop. This is the best start for asexual couples. Massage is also a good way to start by eliminating each other's shoulder and neck pain and fatigue. When both people's bodies can relax and feel comfortable, they will naturally want to have further contact with each other.
